Explore, Evolve, and Live Your Truth: Welcome to the Pyaar& Community

Head out on a safe, inclusive and knowledgeable journey into non-monogamy, kink and beyond!

Pyaar&: Curated Community, Curated Content

Imagine a reality where kinks, polyamory and fetishes were not just restricted to incognito versions of your web-browser. A haven for the non-monogamous, the kinky and the curious should not be fantasy. Pyaar& is where we help realise your dreams and transform shame into unabashed pride. Here, you’ll find exclusive, intimate groups where community, learning and connection thrive.

We're the community you're looking for if you are

Polyamorous

Non-monogamous

Kinky

Queer

Curious

We're over two years old and are present in Mumbai, Delhi, Bengaluru and Pune. We're working to bring the community to your city soon. Check with us when we're scheduled to launch in your city or in a city near you. In the meanwhile, you can remain connected with us on Instagram.

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What our members have to say

Being part of this community has completely transformed how I view love and connection. It challenged my limiting beliefs and showed me that relationships can take many forms, all rooted in communication, consent, and authenticity. Through this group, I’ve learned to embrace love on my own terms, free from societal constraints. The experience has been deeply liberating, helping me grow into a more self-aware and compassionate person.

Joining this polyamorous community has been an incredible experience! It’s a friendly, accepting space where everyone is encouraged to be their authentic selves. From the moment I joined, I felt welcomed and supported by both new members and seasoned community members alike. The moderators are knowledgeable, kind, and always ready to facilitate open, candid conversations. They help clear up any doubts about relationships, intimacy, and boundaries, making sure everyone feels comfortable and informed. Whether you're new to polyamory or an experienced member, this community fosters connection, fun, and mutual respect. It’s a safe space for learning and growing, and I’m grateful to be a part of it!

It has been a year since I joined the Pyaar& community. The spaces they create and the people who are at the center of the community have without fail made me feel both welcome and safe. The community has become the setting for my self discovery. It has been the reason I have felt included, validated for who I am unraveling as my authentic self. Joining Pyaar& has been as affirming a decision as understanding I am polyamorous for living my life on my terms.

I have always been looking for a place where I could discuss non conformity and try to understand who I am as an individual. Pyaar& as a community is the best place to be where communication with like minded people allows you growth and understanding about yourself.

Being a part of Pyaar& has been an incredibly enriching journey for me. This space has redefined love, connection, and community in ways I never imagined. The open-ended nature of Pyaar& is what makes it so special – it's all about embracing inclusivity, authenticity, and personal growth. Through this group, I have explored aspects of myself I hadn’t tapped into before, met incredible people from diverse backgrounds, and formed bonds that go beyond conventional relationship structures. It has been a space of support, learning, and, most importantly, joy. The conversations, the meetups, the shared experiences – all of it has contributed to a deeper understanding of love in its many forms. I’ve laughed, learned, and loved in ways that feel truly free and fulfilling. Pyaar& is not just a group; it’s a beautiful, evolving tapestry of human connection, and I’m grateful to be a part of it.

After spending what seems like decades on all the dating apps, and going through heartbreaks trying to be in monogamous "situationships", I found Pyaar&. Being a nerdy one, I had been researching polyamory and talking to folks who were proudly poly and only much later did I realise that this structure aligned very well with what I was expecting from the dating world. However having seen the dark side of being vulnerable, both emotionally and physically, I was extremely apprehensive about navigating this poly space and putting myself out there. What came by as a happy accident, my entry to the community was wonderful from the get-go. From the first mixer, the only word that came to my mind when someone asked me how it was... "Safe!" I felt so loved and cared for, and just felt the comfort to be who I am. And explore the way I want to. And as luck would have it, Cupid struck at the most perfect time. I met someone I had interacted with in the past, but our interactions with every mixer brought us closer, enabling us to organically move towards each other, and then also explore together. I'm super grateful for the wonderful family that I've found with Pyaar&, and I would love to invite more fun folks, especially more women to explore Pyaar& on their journey of love.

I am a married woman, fully exploring myself after connecting with Pyaar&. It has been two years since I joined this group, and I feel like this place belongs to me, and I belong here. It is one of the safest places to connect with like-minded people because you know that no one is judging you for who you are. I have always had multiple partners/connections, and it was difficult to define the equations. But after joining this group, I have learned so much about consent, boundaries, and effective communication, which has helped me navigate my relationships much better. I have made beautiful connections in Pyaar& and met my long-term partner here – I am truly grateful to have him in my life. The people in the community are so welcoming that they make you feel at home. To this day, I travel all the way from Pune to Mumbai to attend the monthly mixers. I never knew such a space existed on a social platform until an old friend introduced me to it. Now, I realize this is exactly what I had been looking for – a community of safe, loving, and like-minded people. There are still many topics considered taboo, but after joining this community, it has become much easier to get answers and hear opinions based on personal experiences. These insights have been truly helpful in my journey of self-discovery and exploration. So, if you are looking for a space where you can be open, or if you are still discovering and curious about yourself, then join this community! You will definitely find what you’ve been looking for.

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Explore Love, Connection, and Community with Pyaar&

Love is more than just a fleeting emotion—it’s a journey of self-discovery, connection, and intimacy that evolves over time. Whether you’re exploring polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, kink, or mindful relationships, Pyaar& is here to create a safe, inclusive space where curiosity meets connection.

We believe that love exists in many forms, and every relationship—whether monogamous, open, or unconventional—deserves respect, communication, and intentionality. If you’ve ever questioned traditional love norms or sought a deeper understanding of intimacy, boundaries, and personal freedom, you’re in the right place.

Why Pyaar&? A Safe Space for Conscious Love and Exploration

At Pyaar&, we know that relationships don’t fit into one-size-fits-all boxes. Some people thrive in monogamous partnerships, while others find fulfillment in polyamory, open relationships, or fluid dynamics. Some express intimacy through gentle touch, while others crave power exchange, roleplay, or BDSM exploration.

Our mission is to offer a judgment-free, supportive community where you can:

Learn about attachment styles, communication, and emotional well-being
Explore non-monogamy, polyamory, and different relationship structures
Understand kink, consent, and personal boundaries
Find guidance in navigating jealousy, love languages, and emotional security
Engage in discussions about dating, pleasure, and intimacy—without shame or stigma

Whether you’re just starting your journey or have years of experience navigating alternative relationships and kinks, Pyaar& welcomes you with open arms.

Understanding Polyamory & Ethical Non-Monogamy

What is Polyamory?

Polyamory is the practice of having multiple loving, consensual relationships at the same time. It differs from traditional open relationships because it prioritizes emotional bonds, trust, and ethical communication rather than being solely about physical connections.

Many people mistakenly believe that polyamory is about never committing or avoiding responsibility, but in reality, polyamorous relationships require more honesty, communication, and self-awareness than many monogamous structures.

Different Types of Ethical Non-Monogamy

Not all non-monogamous relationships look the same. Here are a few common structures:

Solo Polyamory – Prioritizing individual autonomy while maintaining multiple relationships.
Hierarchical Polyamory – Having primary, secondary, and sometimes tertiary partners.
Non-Hierarchical Polyamory – No ranking system; all partners are valued equally.
Relationship Anarchy – Rejecting labels and predefined relationship structures, focusing on freedom, consent, and mutual agreements.
Open Relationships – Allowing partners to engage in romantic or sexual experiences with others, often with agreed-upon boundaries.
Swinging – Typically involving partner-swapping in social settings for sexual exploration.

No matter which relationship style you resonate with, the key to ethical non-monogamy is clear communication, honesty, and consent. We help you find the tools and insights to help navigate the emotional complexities of multiple relationships—from managing jealousy to creating fulfilling connections.

Kinks, BDSM, and Pleasure Beyond the Norm

Kink is often misunderstood, but at its core, it’s about intentional pleasure, trust, and personal expression. Whether you’re curious about bondage, dominance, submission, impact play, sensory deprivation, or roleplay, Pyaar& supports exploring kinks in a safe, educated, and consensual way.

What is Kink?

Kink refers to any sexual preference or activity that falls outside of conventional vanilla intimacy. Some kinks involve power exchange and dominance, while others explore sensory stimulation, role-playing, or restraint.

The most important aspects of kink include:

Consent & Communication – Establishing clear boundaries, safe words, and mutual comfort
Aftercare – Providing emotional and physical care after an intense experience
Trust & Negotiation – Understanding limits, preferences, and shared desires before engaging
Exploration & Openness – Kink is a journey; it evolves with curiosity and self-awareness

Popular Kinks and BDSM Practices

If you’ve ever been curious about the world of BDSM and kink, here are some common categories:

Bondage & Restraint – Using ropes, cuffs, or silk ties to create a sense of submission and trust
Impact Play – Exploring spanking, flogging, or paddling with mutual consent and safety measures
Sensory Play – Heightening touch through blindfolds, ice, feathers, or wax play
Roleplay & Power Dynamics – Playing with dominance, submission, teacher/student, doctor/nurse, and more
Edgeplay – Pushing physical and psychological boundaries in a fully consensual manner
Voyeurism & Exhibitionism – Exploring the thrill of being seen or watching others
Pet Play, Age Play & Other Identity-Based Kinks – Embodying different personas for pleasure and exploration

We, at Pyaar&, approach kink and alternative intimacy with education, inclusivity, and zero judgment. Whether you’re just starting or a seasoned explorer, our community is here to support you on your journey.

The Power of Consent, Communication & Emotional Intelligence

Whether you’re navigating polyamory, open relationships, kink, or monogamy, one thing remains non-negotiable: consent.

Consent isn’t just a one-time yes or no. It’s an ongoing dialogue that ensures safety, comfort, and emotional respect. We promote:

Non-Violent Communication (NVC) – Using mindful language to express needs without harm
The Traffic Light System – Red (stop), Yellow (slow down), Green (go ahead) for clear boundaries
Active Listening – Hearing your partner’s needs without judgment or defensiveness
Self-Awareness & Check-Ins – Understanding your own emotions before engaging with others

Love, pleasure, and relationships flourish when built on mutual respect, emotional intelligence, and informed choice.

Relationship Anarchy: A Framework for Radical Love

For those who reject traditional relationship structures altogether, Relationship Anarchy (RA) offers an alternative. RA is a philosophy that prioritizes autonomy, individual connection, and non-hierarchical relationships. It challenges the idea that romantic relationships should be the most important or hold more value than friendships or platonic bonds.

RA encourages:

Breaking away from societal norms that dictate what love “should” look like
Emphasizing personal freedom and co-creating relationship agreements
Prioritizing communication and mutual care rather than predefined expectations
Rejecting the idea that love and commitment must be tied to exclusivity

For those seeking a fully customizable approach to relationships, RA offers a refreshing perspective that aligns with personal authenticity and evolving desires.

Join the Pyaar& Community: Where Love Has No Limits

At Pyaar&, we celebrate love, pleasure, and connection in all its beautiful diversity. Whether you’re exploring polyamory, kink, non-monogamy, or just want to understand yourself better, our community provides:

Educational content on love languages, attachment styles, and relationship dynamics
Engaging discussions on ethical non-monogamy, BDSM, and alternative relationships
A judgment-free space to explore intimacy, trust, and personal freedom

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Love is limitless — explore yours with Pyaar&.

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